'Don't normalize this': after deadly gunfire at children's party, advocates urge focus on violence tearing US apart

Deadly gunfire at a children's birthday party in California has highlighted the urgent need for authorities and the media to examine shootings like this with the same vigor as high-profile mass shootings.

Community organizers are calling on officials to devote more resources to investigating and preventing such incidents, which often leave behind trauma and no progress in addressing underlying issues. The tragedy occurred when masked men opened fire at a banquet hall where 100 people had gathered to celebrate a toddler's birthday, killing four victims including two eight-year-olds, Maya Lupian and Rose Reotutar Guerrero, as well as Amari Peterson, 14, and Susano Archuleta, 21.

For many in Stockton, the shooting is part of a broader worrying shift in street culture that requires urgent attention. Victims' families fear that this incident will be written off as gang violence to be handled by law enforcement and prosecutors rather than receiving holistic solutions involving schools, mental health providers, and non-profits working with the most underserved people.

Tashante McCoy, who survived being shot herself after a party in Stockton and lost her brother to gun violence in 2012, believes that authorities must address this shift more comprehensively. "Because it's the same scenario: children being hurt," she said.

The focus of attention usually shifts when perpetrators' profiles do not align with mass shooters radicalized by dark corners of the internet, leaving families and communities hanging without adequate support or justice. Experts fear that such shootings limit funding for youth development programs and failing to rehabilitate those caught with guns, perpetuating cycles of violence in neighborhoods.

The constant drumbeat of violent injury and death has led to collective trauma, according to community leader Leia Schenk, who advocates for increased investment in social services, education, and mental health to curb this cycle. "It limits the resources that these very communities need but aren't receiving," she said.

Cymone Reyes, a Stockton native running Central Valley Gender Health and Wellness, emphasizes that there's no typical shooting. "Saying that this is typical only normalizes it. It desensitizes us," she said of shootings driven by both internet radicalization and community violence.

The devastating shooting also brought back memories of past tragedies, including the 1989 Cleveland elementary school incident in which five children were killed and 31 others injured. The trauma remains unresolved, according to Reyes, who senses a collective heaviness that goes beyond just mourning.
 
omg u gotta think, if mass shootings get so much attention & resources they get to "fix" whatever issues led up to it... why dont similar incidents like this at parties 4 kids get the same attention? its all about where the profile fits in society - a bunch of kids just got killed in a random party shooting & no one's even discussing how to address the root causes ๐Ÿค”
 
I'm telling you, this whole thing is super tragic, but we need to be careful not to create more problems ๐Ÿคฏ. I mean, on one hand, it's devastating that innocent kids got hurt and killed at that party. But on the other hand, I think we're getting a little carried away with all this "urgency" talk... like, shouldn't we be focusing on the root causes of gun violence instead of just treating the symptoms? ๐Ÿค”

And what about the fact that some people are saying that shootings like this are part of a bigger problem in street culture? I'm not sure if that's entirely true or if it's just a bunch of people trying to blame everyone else for their problems. Like, can't we just agree to disagree on this one? ๐Ÿ˜’

But at the same time... I mean, what if some of these shootings are actually connected and we're just not looking hard enough? And what about the fact that survivors like Tashante McCoy are speaking out about their experiences? That's super brave and important. ๐Ÿ’ช So, yeah, maybe we do need to take a closer look at this stuff... but how close is too close? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ
 
๐Ÿค• this is so heartbreaking what's going on in California right now... like four kids at a birthday party getting gunned down it's just devastating for the families and community ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

I feel like we're always talking about mass shootings but when it comes to everyday stuff like this it gets swept under the rug ๐Ÿ™„. I mean, what's the difference between a bunch of random masked people showing up at a party and some radicalized dude going off on the news? It's all just gun violence in my book ๐Ÿ’”

I don't want to be one of those people who says "oh, it's just a typical shooting" but like... if I do say that am I just desensitizing myself to the reality of it all ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ? Shouldn't we be making more of an effort to address these kinds of incidents with the same attention and resources as mass shootings? ๐Ÿค”
 
๐Ÿ˜” this is so senseless... how can we not be able to protect our kids? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ its not just about gang violence or internet radicalization... its about us as a society failing these vulnerable people. ๐Ÿ’” we need to start looking at the root causes and invest in programs that can prevent this from happening again. mental health, education, community services... it all matters. let's stop just jumping to conclusions and start taking action ๐Ÿšจ
 
๐Ÿค•๐Ÿ˜” Gun violence is getting outta control ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿ’ฅ. Every time something like this happens it's always about the shooters ๐Ÿ’ฃ but what about the victims' families? ๐Ÿค They're the ones left with the scars ๐Ÿค•. Gangs aren't just in California, they're everywhere ๐ŸŒŽ. It's all connected ๐Ÿ”— - school problems, mental health ๐Ÿฅ, and community violence ๐Ÿ’ช.

I'm so tired of these shootings getting swept under the rug ๐Ÿšฎ. We need to stop glorifying the shooters and start focusing on the real victims ๐Ÿ‘ง๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ฆ๐Ÿป. It's not just about the guns ๐Ÿ”ซ or the gangs ๐Ÿค, it's about the community ๐Ÿ’–. We need to support each other โค๏ธ and get to the root of the problem ๐Ÿ’ก.

Why can't we do better? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ“š We've been over this before... in 1989 ๐ŸŽ‰... and now again ๐Ÿ™. It's time for a change ๐Ÿ”„. Let's focus on education ๐Ÿ“š, mental health ๐Ÿฅ, and community ๐Ÿ‘ซ. That's the way to break the cycle ๐Ÿ’ช.
 
๐Ÿค• this is so heartbreaking ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿ˜ข what's going on with our communities? it feels like we're just seeing the surface level of these tragedies and not really addressing the root issues ๐Ÿ’”. i think we need to shift the focus from just punishing the perpetrators to actually investing in programs that can help prevent these incidents from happening in the first place ๐Ÿ“ˆ. like, why are we always so quick to blame it on gang violence or internet radicalization? let's get real for a second and talk about how to make our communities safer and more supportive for everyone ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’–
 
Can't believe this is happening again ๐Ÿค•, especially at a birthday party where kids are supposed to be celebrating life, not fighting for survival. Authorities need to take a closer look at the systemic issues that lead to these tragedies and stop just pointing fingers or blaming gang violence. It's time for a more holistic approach to addressing the root causes of violence, like poverty, lack of access to mental health services, and community support. We can't keep neglecting our most vulnerable populations ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ
 
This latest mass shooting is just another example of how our society is failing its young people ๐Ÿค•. It's time for us to stop making excuses for why these incidents happen and start taking responsibility for creating safer communities ๐Ÿ‘ฅ. The fact that authorities are only getting involved when the perpetrators' profiles don't match those of high-profile mass shooters is a clear case of uneven enforcement ๐Ÿš”. We need to stop normalizing gun violence and start holding our leaders accountable for providing resources to prevent such tragedies in the first place ๐Ÿ’ธ. It's not just about investing in schools or mental health programs, it's about creating systemic change that addresses the root causes of this issue ๐Ÿ”ฅ. We can't keep expecting the same outcome from a different set of circumstances ๐Ÿ”„.
 
THE CALIFORNIA SHOOTING THAT HAPPENED AT THE BIRTHDAY PARTY IS SO TRAGIC AND IT MAKES ME SAD TO THINK ABOUT ALL THE LITTLE KIDS WHO WERE INNOCENTLY HURT ๐Ÿค•๐Ÿ˜ข. I FEEL LIKE WE NEED TO DO BETTER AS A COMMUNITY TO PREVENT THIS KIND OF THING FROM HAPPENING AGAIN, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO STUDENTS AND YOUNG PEOPLE IN OUR NEIGHBORHOODS ๐ŸŒณ๐Ÿ‘ง. WE CAN'T JUST WRITE OFF THESE INCIDENTS AS GANG VIOLENCE OR INTERNET RADICALIZATION, WE NEED TO TACKLE THE UNDERLYING ISSUES THAT ARE CAUSING THIS PROBLEM ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’ช. WE SHOULD BE FOCUSING ON GIVING OUR YOUTH BETTER SUPPORT SYSTEMS AND RESOURCES, LIKE MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES AND EDUCATIONAL OPPORTUNITIES, SO THEY CAN THRIVE INSTEAD OF BEING VULNERABLE TO TRAUMA ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ“š
 
๐Ÿค• it's so heartbreaking what happened at this kids birthday party ๐ŸŽ‚... we need to keep pushing for change and make sure these types of incidents are taken seriously by authorities ๐Ÿš”๐Ÿ’ผ not just written off as gang violence or internet radicalization ๐Ÿ’ป... we gotta think about the root causes and provide real support to communities that need it most ๐Ÿค more funding for schools, mental health, and social services is a must ๐Ÿ‘ let's keep having these conversations and work towards creating safer spaces for our kids to grow up ๐Ÿ˜Š
 
๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’” I'm so worried about this... like what can we do? These kids were just trying to have fun at their birthday party and then BAM! This happens. It's crazy how it always seems like the media only covers the big mass shootings, but these smaller ones are really hurting people too ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ. I think we need more resources for schools and mental health services so that kids can get help before they turn to violence. And what about the community? We need to support them more, not just throw money at the problem without fixing it ๐Ÿ’ธ. It's like... we keep talking about how safe our communities should be, but then these things happen and we're like "oh no, what's next?" ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ
 
๐Ÿ˜ž this is just so heartbreaking - four innocent kids lost their lives at a birthday party ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿค• can't believe what's happening in Stockton ๐Ÿ˜ฉ anyway, i think we need to rethink how we're approaching these cases... it's not just about gun control or law enforcement, we gotta talk about the systemic issues too ๐Ÿค like poverty, lack of access to education and mental health services... we can't keep treating symptoms without addressing the root causes ๐Ÿ’ช
 
OMG u guys can't believe this is happening again in our country ๐Ÿคฏ like what even is going on? These shooters are literally targeting innocent kids at their birthday parties and ppl are more worried about solving the "typical" shooting thingy than actually doing something to prevent these mass shootings from happenin 2 begin with ๐Ÿ˜ฉ it's not just about gang violence or mental health issues, it's about THE FACT THAT THESE KIDS ARE BEING TARGETED AND MURDERED ๐Ÿ’” and we're still not doin enuf to stop it! ๐Ÿšซ my heart is literally breaking for these victims & their families ๐Ÿ’– and can we pls focus on giving them the support they need instead of just talkin about solutions that might never come 2 pass? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ this trauma is NOT OVER YET ๐Ÿ’”
 
๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ Can we please get serious for one sec? Like I'm not even gonna sit here and write about this stuff, but it's just another example of how our society is literally failing our kids ๐Ÿค•. It's not like some random mass shooter thing or whatever... No, it's the fact that these little dudes (8 & 14 years old ๐Ÿคฏ) are getting caught in the middle of gang violence and basically being used as cannon fodder ๐ŸŽฏ. And what do we do? We just pat ourselves on the back for doing a half-hearted investigation and then move on to the next "big" thing ๐Ÿ™„. Like, no, it's not that easy! These families are left with trauma and grief... and what's the real solution gonna be? More funding for schools? Mental health services? Or is it just gonna be more of the same old song & dance? ๐Ÿ˜’
 
My heart breaks for those little ones and their families ๐Ÿค•๐Ÿ˜ข it's just not fair that they had to go through this ๐Ÿ˜ญ the way we're always talking about how we need to fix mass shootings but what about all these smaller, senseless shootings that are still super tragic? We should be giving attention to these too ๐Ÿ’” it's like, their lives don't matter any less because it wasn't a big public event or something ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ I'm so tired of seeing families suffer and not getting the help they need... we need to do better here ๐Ÿ™
 
๐Ÿคฏ this is just getting outta hand!! like, we can't even have a birthday party without someone getting shot !! what's the point of having laws and rules if they're not gonna be enforced ๐Ÿ™„?!?!

i mean come on, 4 kids (8 & 2) killed in one go?!?! what was the point of them even havin a party? were they even safe there? ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ‘€

and don't even get me started on how we're supposed to just write this off as "gang violence" and not give it the attention it deserves ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ! like, no, it's not that easy ! these kids (and their families) deserve justice ๐Ÿ”ฅ!

we need to take a step back and think about what's really goin on here... is it just internet radicalization or is it community violence?!?! or is it a combination of both? ๐Ÿค”

i'm so tired of the trauma and the pain that these communities are goin through ๐Ÿค•... we can't keep desensitizing ourselves to this stuff ๐Ÿ˜ฉ. we need to do better ๐Ÿ‘Š.

we need more resources, more support, more justice ๐Ÿ”’! it's time for us to come together and make a change ๐Ÿ’ช!
 
I'm so down for change ๐Ÿคž but honestly it's hard not to feel like this is gonna be another mass shooting and nobody's really doin' anything about it ๐Ÿ’”. I mean, 4 kids dead at a birthday party? That's a tragedy that'll stay with the families forever...and what's the point of even havin' a conversation about gun control when people are still out here gettin' shot ๐Ÿคฏ. It's like we're just sweepin' this stuff under the rug and expectin' everything to magically be okay again ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™‚๏ธ. We need more than just community organizers callin' for change, we need real action from our leaders ๐Ÿ’ช.
 
this is getting out of hand ๐Ÿคฏ, every time something like this happens its always the same thing, no one ever gets caught or held accountable, and the victims just get forgotten ๐Ÿ™, i mean come on, we're supposed to be living in a society where kids can celebrate their birthdays without worrying about being shot ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿšซ, but the truth is, our streets are still super messed up ๐Ÿ’”, and until we start addressing that, these kinds of incidents just keep happening ๐Ÿ’ฅ, it's not even about the perpetrators' profiles or whatever, its just a case of plain old common sense ๐Ÿ˜’
 
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